When It’s Time for Home Care

There are a lot of guides available to help you decide if someone you care about has reached the point of needing outside help. If you do a web search for “time for home care”, an incredible list of sites appears with all kinds of signs to look for in your aging parent or loved one that will signal their need for help with daily living. These clues include poor personal hygiene, difficulty managing daily living activities such as housework and grocery shopping, missed appointments, and problems taking medications as prescribed. Although these clues are certainly important when deciding if you should look to professional help for your loved one, a consideration that is often overlooked is YOU.

If you’ve been your loved one’s primary caregiver, you need to assess your own condition also. According to the Family Caregiving Alliance there are over 44 million unpaid caregivers in America and they are definitely paying a price. The effects of being a caregiver are both psychological and physical. The strain of caring for a friend or relative who is frail or elderly causes significant clinical symptoms of depression in 40%-70% of all unpaid caregivers. Take some time to think about yourself. Do you feel stressed all the time? Do you feel frustrated, angry or hopelessly drained at the end of the day? Are you no longer in control of your own life? Are you becoming more isolated and do you continue to maintain social contact with friends and relatives … when did you last have some “me time”? Are all the hours of your day filled with obligations to your job, your family, and your loved one?

How are you doing physically? The stress felt caring for someone long term has been linked to elevated blood pressure, a compromised immune system, and heart disease. Is your blood pressure up? Do you seem to catch every cold or bug that comes your way? Caregivers typically don’t have time to take care of their own health needs. Do you get regular checkups with your doctor and your dentist? Do you take the time to prepare nutritious meals for yourself or to get some exercise? Do you have insomnia or stomach complaints? Do you actually feel guilty if on some rare occasion you take the time to enjoy a former hobby or interest?

Be careful not to miss the signs of needing help, both in your loved one and most importantly in yourself. Don’t wait for a crisis to happen with the one you care for or with yourself. After all, the best way to help your loved one is to make sure you are at your best. It may be time to get some help. How did you know it was time to get professional help? Share below and vist us at http://www.trilliumhomecare.com

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Filed under Aging in Place, Caregiver, companionship, Home Care, Senior Care, Trillium HomeCare

One response to “When It’s Time for Home Care

  1. Reblogged this on Life Alert News and commented:
    Know the signs of when an aging parent may need home care vs. a little extra protection if living alone. If your elderly loved one may not need Home Care then Life Alert may be the answer for you. One touch of a button will summon help (and you) fast, 24/7.

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